In His Own Words
About Him
I'm just a guy looking for a lady, someone to share and create memories, achieve our special dreams together, aspire to heights together, be a support and pillar of strength, to care and love, to make someone feel special, to laugh with, to share intimate moments, to hug and to hold.
I’m me!! Heck, you’ve probably read all of those narratives that describe so well that they are the answer to all women’s wishes. You have probably met them and found that they only wish they could find that answer!! Tried the frog kissing bit and ended up with warts rather than the prince..!
I won’t build that image but rather cut to the chase and meet over a soft candle lit dinner, and while sipping some good chilled wine, listening to soft background music, get to know the real you and me.
Suppose I should add that besides being loving, sensual and affectionate there is a sense of adventure and a good sense of humour too, would you want to crack the cork and savour the goodness..??
About His Ideal Match
Someone that has the same goals as mine, that is caring and considerate, has a deeper need than just another companion, one that appreciates love and being loved and not keep singing the words but walking the talk, not a pretentious self centered and egotistical woman, someone that is prepared to share a life of togetherness and happiness, someone that is feminine in all respects.
Well in summary… it would be OK if you were an aerobics instructor, used your private jet to ferry us to and from your mansion in Monaco, having a joint bank account with Bill Gates and owning a harem in Thailand, looks that resembles Julia Roberts and a dog that whistles our anthem whenever he barks… I could compromise on some of these but you should also be down to earth, capable of loving and being loved, sensually feminine, affectionate and caring.. Not a lot to ask???
I’m no typist and not looking to form any long term cyber relationships, but would rather start with a few mails, chat on the phone and then to be seated across a table and while we looked into one another’s eyes, discovering the softer realities of each other.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
70 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
South Africa; Canada; United States; Slovakia; Slovenia; Ukraine; United Kingdom; Australia; New Zealand | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
60 - 75 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
158cm (5' 2.2") - 174cm (5' 8.5") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | ||
Religion: |
Atheist; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Educational; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Motorsport; Rugby; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; German; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Dating SA: |
Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |