In His Own Words
About Him
Let’s try summary again…with my new outlook and refreshed mindset…I know we will each other and be able to complete each other. I'm very busy with work and not great with life balance...but I really want to find balance and also stumble onto my lid…and find myself...
Ek het die afgelope 10 jaar gefokus op die enkel pa ding en werk. My werk het meeste van my fokus en tyd gekry Ek het nie uitgeblink met my lewensbalans nie…eintlik heeltemal die teenoorgestelde! Maar, ek wil die regte EEN ontmoet..en vir my om JOU te ontmoet…moet ek tyd maak vir sosiale lewe en meer belangriker...tyd maak vir JOU in my lewe…ek moet net bietjie daardie ‘spier’ van sosialiteit bietjie re ken oefen…geduld sal waardeer word…
MAAR ek kan jou below edit sal die moeite werd wees vir DIE regte een wat die Here oor my pad bring. Die EEN wat die Here uitgekies het en wat die Heilige Gees my mee sal help om raak te sien…te kontak…en te leer ken en te groei…met mekaar, met Jesus en die Heilige Gees…
Die binne-mooi is vir my belangriker as buite 'mooi'….WANT…wanneer ons oud raak en Newton in skop…by MY en jou (Wat natuurlik NOOIT sal gebeur nie :-)….moet ons nogsteeds verlief wees…vir mekaar mooi wees…en beste pelle wees…!
Ek kan nie dans om my lewe te red nie! Maar ek kan projekte, Excel, Outlook soos min..
Roadtrips….net ons self wees…niks fake…nie daar om mekaar te impress…maar om ons self te wees...dit is waarna ek soek…indien ons eendag ontmoet…gaan ek seker plakkies, shorts (Of Jeans) en t-shirt aantrek...met geen grimering nie... ;-)
Iemand wie my veilige hawe kan wees... my beste vriend... iemand wat my laat lę in haar skoot en met wie ek my swakpunte asook vrese en vrede kan deel... sodat ek myself 100% kan wees...
So…sien jy kans vir die skip wat besig is om stadig te draai…wat die Hawe soek…wat JY is…beter te leer ken…?
About His Ideal Match
Definitely someone that is looking for the same....find happiness…love…enjoy chatting…but also the silence of just taking in the MOMENT...and life…and be the answer to each other and for each other.....
Ek Glo die regte persoon is daar buite vir my....my beste vriend...iemand wat geduld gaan he met my en my social spiere wat nie bestaan nie...
Iemand wat gelukkig daarmee is dat ons elkeen gaan ‘spaar’ vir mekaar tot die dag dat ons trou…en ons dit voor die Vader vir mekaar belowe…
Ek wil jou ontmoet vir die regte redes...en tyd saam spandeer vir dieselfde... ek's nie perfek nie maar ek glo ek kan vir jou die beste plek en weergawe van my lewe wees en gee...
Iemand vir wie ek n veilige hawe kan wees...
Iemand wat die lewe met tye ernstig kan opneem...en ander tye sommer net verspot kan wees...wat weet wat om ernstig op te neem en wat nie...
Iemand saam met ek en sy kan 'wees'...met mekaar...vir mekaar...saam met mekaar...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 208cm (6' 9.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Gospel / Religious; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Cricket; Hiking; Pool; Rugby; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Italian; Pub Grub; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Dating SA: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |