In His Own Words
About Him
I am caring, appreciative and passionate and enjoy to be close. Overlanding and relic hunting (in Angola) is one of my interests. Other interests include photography, tree felling and environment rehabilitation, fly fishing, designer cocktails and public/motivational speaking. I also have an interest in food security, sustainable renewable energy, permaculture, fungi and personal development. You will need to contact me for the rest of the write up.
Life has its twists and turns, but I’ve learned to navigate them with resilience and an open heart. I believe challenges are opportunities in disguise—they’ve shaped me into someone who values kindness, growth, and meaningful connections. I’m looking for a partner who shares a similar outlook and is ready to embrace life’s adventures, both big and small, together.
About His Ideal Match
• Self-respect
• Dignity
• Elegance
• Emotional availability
• Frequent and consistent communication
• Consistency and stability
• Similar interests
• Love and companionship
• Trust and honesty
• Financial compatibility
• A shared vision of success
• Compatibility in the dimensions of intimacy
• Realizing expectations which are created
• Allowing different priorities
• Handling irreconcilable differences
• Equality in roles in the household
• Friends and family compatibility
• Ability to deal with conflict
• Handling external adversity and crisis together
• Respect and openness
• Physical and psychological health
• Giving each other space
• Ability to embrace change through the relationship
• Being able to forgive
• Appreciating one another
• Subtle flirtation and seductiveness
• Having alluring or tempting qualities
• Emotional Support: Ensuring that both partners are there for each other during tough times.
• Shared Activities: Engaging in activities that both partners enjoy together.
• Personal Growth: Encouraging each other to grow and pursue individual goals.
• Humor and Fun: Keeping the relationship light-hearted and fun.
• Flexibility
• Boundaries: Respecting each other's boundaries and personal space.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Grootfontein Country Estate), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Grey | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Pretoria (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Food Services; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
On Welfare/Benefits; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Documentary; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Cricket; Fishing; Motorsport; Rugby; Squash; Table Tennis |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Greek; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Dating SA: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |