In His Own Words
About Him
I am a black male aged 52. I am divorced have 3 adult daughters not living with me. I live alone and I work predominantly from home. I am slim and I enjoy travelling and watching TV.
About His Ideal Match
Would like a divorced, widowed woman with children and who is not looking to have more children. Must be large, extra pounds and busty. Don't mind if she smokes or drinks occasionally. Must be looking for friendship to spend time together and share and laugh and cry together. Must be particular about her hair which must be neat and beautifully done, not simple short hair
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Zimbabwe | |
Location: |
Middelburg, Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
53 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds; Large; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Black; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Black/Caribbean | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Mercy; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
My TV is never off |
TV Shows: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Documentary; Drama; War |
Interests: |
Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cycling; Extreme sports; Motorsport; Running; Swimming; Walking; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using Dating SA: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Quite |