In His Own Words
About Him
I'm business minded, like new challenges. I like to assist people who have challenges of life. Motivating kind of person. I'm not perfect and am willing to learn from my partner. I'm looking for long term commitment as am tired of playing games.
About His Ideal Match
Someone with values also respectful and outspoken person. She must be humble and independent and she must be loyal, honest.
She must willing to learn new things in life also willing to relocate if necessary. Someone to build family with.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
East London (Mdantsane), Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Black | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Xhosa | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Eastern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
29 - 47 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 160cm (5' 3.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African; Coloured; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Sesotho; Swati; Tsonga; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu; Other | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Sesotho; Swati; Xhosa; Zulu | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Shaved |
Disabilities: |
I struggle with mobility |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; History; Mystery; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Bowling; Boxing; Cricket; Gymnastics; Motorsport; Pool; Snooker; Soccer; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Dating SA: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |









