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OutsideDaBoxSailor

68 – Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa

Practical? Gatvol? Escape to another World & Lifestyle with me.

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Online: 04 February 2024

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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In His Own Words

About Him

OkJaWellNoFine, what's a mind if you can't change it 3-degrees magnetic-north?

We-all know the definition of Crazy - repeating the same thing, expecting a different result. Fact.
....NB - Are you reeeally willing to gamble with the last years of your life trying to find that elusive man-clone - walking on a sweaty beach, staring like an idiot at the moon, and tell you honestly your a$$ is'nt SO big? So howabout a different angle of approach?

I'm ever-optimistic (still here, aren't I?), but also a realist - seeking a woman with just a few (hard to find) traits. 1st become friends, then buddies, then homies - as we remove the stitches at the hip-joint while discovering and develop more similarities - and love will surely creep in. ...Creepy, I know.
....ENTER Pareto's 80/20 principle - if we discover 80% likes, then Live-&-LetLive the 20% agree-to-disagrees - as long as we don't break one-another's speed. And you don't change The PreAgreed GamePlan, like most in my past.

Escape to which Other-World?
- Plan-A (1) was to buy a big-ass 40ft Catamaran and sail "away". So I've been saving many years "determinedly" (Taurus' are'nt stubborn - grin).
- Plan-B of Overlanding with caravan down Central America became a wild-hair up my a$$ for a while - when I missed my financial target at retirement (with many "excuses") of Plan-A (1).
- Plan-A (2) slapped me between the eyes a month ago when I was deep-sea fishing on a pal's boat. I need to be ON the sea, not AT it on a dem beach. So buy a smaller-ass 34ft sailing Catamaran, which I CAN afford.

Uuuh waitaminute, problem w All The Above - I won't/can't do it alone. Alone-anything is'nt as nice/good as with a buddy. And a female-buddy kiss and cook better. There, I said it!

Similar lifestyle applies.
- During a previous cross-Atlantic cruise from CPT to Caribbean, all of us yachties became bored after a few weeks in any given anchorage of sight-see, snorkeling, fishing, shoot-da-breeze, dinner & boardgames everyday with others, etc. Hard to believe of Paradize, but true.

About His Ideal Match

So take many off-grid stuff, compact mobile-disco, and inflatable beach-rental "toys" - to keep them-&-us busy IF/WHEN we want to.
...Besides cruisers on yachts at anchor and in marinas - some places also have intrntl young backpackers in cheap Hostels and/or tourists in Resorts. Equally bored after a few days sight-seeing, have a few $s to burn - so our beach-rentals will be a hit. Last time adult/mature/sane (you'd think) yachties were dancing lattie-spoeg-spat on a beach to dem-boring-after-10min Carib steeldrum music.

Top priority - to have an attitude of Team-player, with no ego to prove - like me - to avoid silly fights. Don't bother if your mind-set is You-vs-Him - excluding Gov/Corps/RulePushers.
- Someone who loves a minimalist lifestyle - independent self-sustainable and off-grid as possible. Yet a small silent generatortjiekie, w elect blender for umbrellatjie-sundowners & a dough-kneader / meat-mincer & a H-Duty sewing-mc are all definites.
- Be handy to make-&-do stuff. Did I say I don't have a TV? but vrek oor movies A/H.
- Not afraid to tackle new adventures - stay cool-calm-collect. HA! I worry enuf for 3 - so I've got you covered.
- Willing to relocate far from friends/family - with the expectation for visits. Allow the dem kids to live their own lives, without limiting your own.
- Someone not over-weight (too much) - and not LOOK like some poor-kid's crinkle-cut ol' grand-maw. I'm relatively athletic - albeit with an almost-pregnancy and need a push-up bra. So nature's old-age gravity-pull is heel-OK.

I've learned to do canning of meats-&-fish (and jams). Plus how Not-To peel potato's, as The Chief OnionPeeler & Dishwasher since a kid - and my soups & bredies are better than ol' Sofie's.
- Can you sew w a machine, or willing to learn - simple straight stuff? HA! this mech-design halfassed-eng has a few "solar" off-grid ideas to build.

Wanna meet me, look me in da eyes - to see "if we have a vibe"? Then write me UNTIL we agree & you're willing to visit me in Florida near Daytona Beach.

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
68
Star Sign:
Taurus
Height:
183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Blonde
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans
Other Languages:
English
Religion:
Christian / Protestant
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
60 - 65
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Slim; Athletic
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short; Straight
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intellectually Challenged
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
The life of the party
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Self-control
Fashion Sense:
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush)
Favourite Clothing:
My swimming trunks / bikini
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Dance / Disco; Reggae; Rock
Reading:
I love it
Books:
Self-help
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
TV Shows:
Movie Channels
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online.
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Sewing
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Badminton; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Bowls; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Darts; Inline / Roller skating; Kitesurfing; Martial arts; Pool; Rowing; Sailing; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Doesn't matter; Indian; Seafood; South African; Sushi
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I DO have a bed in my office!
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
Not at all
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like them Well Done ;)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Power; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Fire the boss
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Other
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Feelings about using Dating SA:
Hopeful; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely