In His Own Words
About Him
I was raised in a strict Afrikaans house where good manners was never forgotten, but it seems like its lost within today's world. I try to be as honest as life made me to be and calls a spade by its "real" name. I LOVE Music, use to be a dj and owned my own events company but I also try to make as much time to relax with a decent red wine. I just want to live life and enjoy what ever it throws my direction. Been through some though ones but as I always say: "shit happens, but it is sometimes the only way awesome memories are created" I am in a loveless "partnership" and has been staying in my own room for the past 6 months, living my own life (sharing a 2 bedroom flat) I am planning to move out as soon as its possible for me to do it. So lets chat, I will be open and honest but give me a chance to at least tell you my story and maybe we can get to know each other that way
About His Ideal Match
I am and have always been looking, not for the ONE, but her friend!! I need someone that can be my lover, teacher and best buddy all in one cause I believe that what you give out, you shall receive! "I will be there but I need you to be there for me too"
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Mbombela (Nelspruit), Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
185cm (6' 0.8") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Regular Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Mbombela (Nelspruit) (Mpumalanga, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
34 - 76 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gambling; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Surfing the Internet; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Rodent(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Dating SA: |
Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |