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Paula123

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About Her

Country of Origin:South Africa
Current Location:Durban (morningside), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:Female
Age:37
Star Sign:Sagittarius
Height:168cm (5' 6.1")
Body Type:Average
Looks:Attractive
Hair Colour:Dark Blonde
Eye Colour:Blue
Ethnicity:White/Caucasian
Home Language:English
Other Languages:Afrikaans; Dutch; Zulu
Religion:Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:Widowed
Relationship Types:Just penpals; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:Yes, living with me
Want Children:Ask me later
Eating Habits:Eat most things
Smoking Habits:Regular Smoker
Drinking Habits:Occasional Drinker
Education:High school
Occupation:Self-employed
Income:Comfortable

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Why should you get to know Paula123?

i am a loving,caring honest,loyal friendly person. I have lots of friendship to offer. I love all kinds of music, and i live my life daily in a positive way as God is my source and my provider, i believe totally in the laws of attraction, I love nature, enjoy spending time outdoors and relaxing, watching movies,and having a nice braai around the fire. I have a 10-year old daugter whom i adore, so if you don't like children, or don't get along with children then please move on, Children are a gift from God. If you have God in your life then you can love everything and everybody.Love is the only path to God and to be with God is to be Happy, and to be loved, to have everything in abundance as the universe has intended by God. Be bless all you wonderful people out there, and i hope that each one of you find what you are looking for.

She describes her ideal match thus:

we can all put what we want,but it is not always possible, i am not looking for a fairytale book romance, but if you think you are someone that have lots of friendship and love to give,and that know what it is to be a true friend or companion, and someone that know how to be themselve and that can enjoy the little things in life, the beauty of the universe, children,animals, nature and above all can appreciate a real friendship, then you are on the right path.

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About Her Ideal Match

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Country of Origin:Anywhere in the World
Current Location:Anywhere in the World
Gender:Male
Age Range:Any
Star Sign:Any
Height:Any
Body Type: (Moderately important)Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks: (Moderately important)Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:Any
Eye Colour:Any
Has Photo:Moderately important
Ethnicity: (Non-negotiable)White/Caucasian
Home Language: (Non-negotiable)Afrikaans; English
Other Languages: (Slightly important)Afrikaans; English
Religion:Any
Marital Status: (Non-negotiable)Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:Any
Want Children:Any
Eating Habits: (Moderately important)Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking Habits:Any
Drinking Habits: (Moderately important)Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education: (Non-negotiable)High school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation: (Non-negotiable)Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Political / Government; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Other; Agriculture
Income: (Non-negotiable)Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat

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More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:Well-behaved
Facial Hair:None / not applicable
Eyesight:I wear glasses and contacts
Disabilities:I have none
HIV Status:Negative
Body Art:I don't have any
Fashion Sense:Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Personality Traits
Personality Traits:Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable
Sense of Humour:Witty
Valued Qualities:Celibacy; Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance; Humour; Faithfulness; Chemistry; Sexiness
Intelligence:Intelligent
Ruled by:The head
Party Behaviour:An average mingler
Leisure & Entertainment
Music Preferences:Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic / Techno / Rave; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:I love it
Books:(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; History; Romance; Self-help; Travel; Science / Technology; Religious
TV Habits:I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; MTV or VH1; News; Sci-Fi; Comedy/Sit-coms; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows; Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; Reality shows
Movie Frequency:I wait for movies to come out on video
Movie Preferences:Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Take Drugs:Never
Dating & Relationships
Current Relationship:I'm a widow(er)
Date Activities:A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Sports, Hobbies & Interests
Sport Involvement:Watching from the couch
Sports:American Football; Athletics; Birdwatching; Bowling; Chess; Cricket; Dancesport; Darts; Horse Riding; Extreme sports; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Martial arts; Motorsport; Running; Rugby; Soccer; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Triathlon; Walking; Weight training; Wrestling; Aerobics; Body building; Boxing; Gymnastics; Ice Skating; Pool; Inline / Roller skating; Snooker; Table Tennis; Archery
Interests:Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Reading; Surfing the Internet
Work & Lifestyle
Pace of Life:Organised
Time at Work:I work at home
Cooking:I really enjoy cooking
Dining Out:I eat out a few times a month
Cuisine:American; British; Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai; Halaal
Time Online:I'm on for an hour or two a day
Likes & Dislikes
Favourite Colour:Blue
Animals:I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):Bird(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:Sarcasm
Dreams, Aspirations & Goals
Dream Home:Mansion with loads of servants
Retirement Plans:Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Philosophical Stuff
Religious Attendance:Never
Politics:I have no interest in politics
Honesty:Extremely