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Spide

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About Her

Country of Origin:Netherlands
Current Location:Randburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:Female
Age:53
Star Sign:Cancer
Height:171cm (5' 7.3")
Body Type:Slim
Looks:Attractive
Hair Colour:Blonde
Eye Colour:Blue-Green
Ethnicity:White/Caucasian
Home Language:English
Other Languages:Afrikaans; Dutch; German
Religion:Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:Widowed
Relationship Types:Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:No
Eating Habits:Eat most things
Smoking Habits:Non-Smoker
Drinking Habits:Occasional Drinker
Education:Some University / College
Occupation:Administrative / Secretarial
Income:Enough

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Why should you get to know Spide?

I am a happy and positive person who likes to socialise with friends but can also be happy on my own.

I would like to meet someone with whom I could meet for a coffee, have a drink or share a meal. And if the chemistry is there, and communication is good, other possibilties may arise for us to perhaps continue to get to know each other.

She describes her ideal match thus:

My ideal match should be caring, kind and loyal. Having said that, he should be no walk-over but also be man enough to allow me to be my own person.

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Profile Modified: 08 December 2008
Last Login: Sunday

About Her Ideal Match

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Country of Origin:Anywhere in the World
Current Location: (Decidedly important)Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:Male
Age Range: (Moderately important)48 - 58
Star Sign:Any
Height: (Moderately important)172cm (5' 7.7") - 194cm (6' 4.4")
Body Type:Any
Looks: (Moderately important)Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:Any
Eye Colour:Any
Has Photo:Decidedly important
Ethnicity: (Moderately important)White/Caucasian
Home Language: (Moderately important)Afrikaans; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Spanish; Swedish
Other Languages: (Moderately important)Dutch; English; German
Religion:Any
Marital Status: (Moderately important)Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:Any
Want Children: (Decidedly important)No
Eating Habits: (Moderately important)Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking Habits: (Decidedly important)Non-Smoker
Drinking Habits: (Moderately important)Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education: (Moderately important)High school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:Any
Income: (Decidedly important)Solvent; Enough; Mortgage slave; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat

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More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:Medium; Long; Curly
Facial Hair:None / not applicable
Eyesight:I wear glasses only when reading
Disabilities:I have none
HIV Status:Negative
Body Art:I don't have any
Fashion Sense:Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:My trusty pair of jeans
Personality Traits
Personality Traits:Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable
Sense of Humour:Light-hearted
Valued Qualities:Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Humour; Faithfulness; Chemistry
Intelligence:Intelligent
Ruled by:The heart
Party Behaviour:An average mingler
Leisure & Entertainment
Pastimes of choice:Pursuing a hobby
Music Preferences:Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Heavy Metal; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock
Reading:I enjoy it
Books:(Auto)biographies; History; Mystery; Travel
TV Habits:I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Comedy/Sit-coms; Talk shows; Action/Adventure
Movie Frequency:I wait for movies to come out on video
Movie Preferences:Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Take Drugs:Never
Dating & Relationships
Current Relationship:I'm single
Date Activities:A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Sports, Hobbies & Interests
Sport Involvement:Watching from the couch
Sports:Birdwatching; Rugby; Swimming; Walking; Aerobics
Interests:Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Reading; Surfing the Internet
Work & Lifestyle
Pace of Life:Manageable
Time at Work:I work a standard 40 hour week
Cooking:I really enjoy cooking
Dining Out:I eat out a few times a month
Cuisine:British; Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vegetarian
Family Size:I've got sisters
Family Closeness:We're very close
Time Online:I check in once a day
Likes & Dislikes
Favourite Colour:Black
Animals:I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:Sarcasm
Dreams, Aspirations & Goals
Dream Home:None of the above
Philosophical Stuff
Religious Attendance:Rarely
Politics:I have no interest in politics
Honesty:Extremely